I am 39. And I did not bring up the Native American tragedy to compare it to the tragedy of Jews, but instead to compare the differences in how we handled it moving forward. Both dealt with tragedies, both deal in land disputes, though Native land disputes are far more recent than that of Jews (at least as it relates to the original partitioning of Palestine).

As for books - Any Britannica article or textbook that details the history from 1850+ will do. It is not rhetoric or others' opinions that formulate my perspective, but my own moral compass based on the history.