So, you were a prostitute but you've called it something else to both erase the stigma (for which there shouldn't be any - it's your body ... sell it if you want) while justifying what YOU did as different because .... well, I guess that's where I fail to see the difference.

So, when the man offers money to a woman for companionship, sex, whatever ... it's sexist.

But when a woman becomes a prostitute (which, again, I have NO issue with at all), it's now feminist?

You were a prostitute. Own that. Don't call yourself a 'sugar baby' because you weren't. You were a prostitute.

And honestly, that's cool on its own and society needs to not judge that. But still ... let's call it what it is.

By you using the term 'sugar baby' to describe yourself, aren't you also being kind of ... sexist?

Either way, it's good that it worked out for you and sorry that your husband used it as a dagger. That's wrong.

But you have nothing to be ashamed of, tbh.