Why do I get the impression that you are overweight and are bitter at the world because of this? Maybe I'm way off, but that's kinda' how you're coming across.

Being proud of the way you look is one thing, but shaming people out of acknowledging the FACT that being overweight can cause health issues if you aren't eating healthy and not exercising. Sure, you can be a healthy overweight person, but because the exercise and healthy food one needs to maintain a healthy inside leads to being not overweight on the outside, it's definitely an exception rather than a rule.

Please stop shaming healthy people for being concerned about unhealthy people.