You didn't say any of that. At least not what I responded to.

"Men have choice when it comes to fatherhood: The condom. That will prevent a LOT of future child support payments, but sometimes they break and there's an oopsie. So, ya lay, ya pay."

Nowhere in there did you imply it was anyone else's responsibility but the man.

You did not "make it quite clear that both parties are responsible." Nowhere in what I responded to was ANY of what you just said apparent.

Maybe you thought I responded to something else you said somewhere else?